I don’t want to have to enforce stronger boundaries with people. The problem isn’t how strong my boundaries are and needing to make them stronger. The issue is that certain people violate them and will push those boundaries regardless. The issue isn’t for me to change(again!), to adjust my boundaries(again!) in order to accommodate their disrespect and protect myself against them. 

I am not moving or changing my direction for anyone. I am staying firm where I choose to be. 

If someone is violating my boundaries I want them to get the fuck out my life, I don’t want them around.

If someone is violating my boundaries I’m not adjusting my boundaries or changing my behaviour –

I am walking away. 

PS. Adjusting my boundaries to match someone else’s behaviour in order to keep myself safe and at peace, is exhausting btw and I’m not willing to do that anymore. Plus changing what I do in order to match their energy is once again making it a ‘me’ issue when it’s actually a ‘them’ issue.

So thanks but no thanks.